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Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz share PSA to prevent others from cheating despite their own infidelity: ‘Don’t do it’

Learning from their mistakes.

“Vanderpump Rules” stars Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz issued a PSA Thursday to try to prevent others from cheating in their relationships — despite their own infidelity.

“You should give a PSA right now. If you’re unhappy in your relationship [or] if you feel lost or have experienced feelings for a coworker and it’s starting to escalate, don’t do it,” Schwartz said on Sandoval’s “Everbody Loves Tom” podcast Thursday.

“Don’t do it. Just sit down and have that very uncomfortable conversation with your partner. Go to therapy, or just say it’s over. Don’t have a f–king affair!”

Sandoval — who was involved in one of the most shocking cheating scandals in Bravo history this year — also shared advice for his listeners based on his own drama.

If you’re unhappy in your relationship [or] if you feel lost or have experienced feelings for a coworker and it’s starting to escalate, don’t do it,” Schwartz said on Sandoval’s “Everbody Loves Tom” podcast Thursday. Tom Sandoval/YouTube
The “Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test” alum said you can become and “addict” and feel “euphoria” when you cheat. Tom Sandoval/YouTube

“One thing that really kept me hanging on was the insecurity I had in myself,” the musician, 41, said. “I felt like. ‘Oh, my gosh, I can’t lose this other person because I’ll never get this.’”

Sandoval added, “I had such an insecurity with myself that I felt if I let this go, it will never happen again You can [find that again]. And banking on that is a much safer bet than staying and doing and living in that.”


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The “Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test” alum said you can become and “addict” and feel “euphoria” when you cheat.

The “Vanderpump Rules” stars have had their fair share of relationship drama with exes Ariana Madix (pictured left) and Katie Maloney (right). Getty Images

“You start to hide from the reality of the rest of your life. And you just become lost in that,” he explained.

“Dude, I look back on that now and I’m like, ‘Holy s–t.’ And Schwartz and other people around me, they saw me and I was f–king fixated and barely present.”

Sandoval became public enemy number one after he and his longtime girlfriend, Ariana Madix, split in March after nearly 10 years together.

Sandoval and his longtime girlfriend, Madix, split in March after he found out he was sleeping with their castmate Rachel “Raquel” Leviss. tomsandoval1/Instagram
The musician and Leviss had been having a months-long fling when Madix found out. tomsandoval1/Instagram

At the time, the “Dancing With the Stars” alum, 38, found explicit messages between her boyfriend and their castmate Rachel “Raquel” Leviss, with whom he was having a months-long dalliance.

Following backlash from the scandal, dubbed Scandoval, Leviss, 29, entered a mental health facility and left “Vanderpump Rules.”

Meanwhile, Schwartz, also 41, has had his own issues with being faithful.

Schwartz admitted to making out with several women before and after he married Maloney. musickillskate/Instagram

After the Tom Tom bar co-founder and Katie Maloney tied the knot in August 2016, he confessed to making out with one of castmate Lala Kent’s friends.

During Season 3 of “VPR,” Schwartz also admitted to cheating on the Something About Her co-owner, 36, by kissing another woman while he was inebriated.

The couple called it quits in March 2022 and finalized their divorce that September.